Safety & Consent

SwingBySometime exists to help consenting adults stay connected after meeting in person. Respect, communication, privacy, and consent are foundational to the community. This page outlines expectations, limitations, and safety practices for using the platform.

1. Consent Is Required

Consent must be clear, informed, voluntary, ongoing, and freely given. No person owes another person attention, conversation, messaging, photos, connection, friendship, intimacy, or access.

A ’yes’ may change at any time. Silence, hesitation, intoxication, pressure, guilt, manipulation, persistence, or assumed expectations do not equal consent.

2. Respect Boundaries

Every person and couple has different boundaries, comfort levels, relationship agreements, and communication styles. Respect them.

If someone says no, disconnects, stops responding, asks for space, or declines interaction, respect the decision without pressure or repeated contact.

3. Zero Tolerance for Harmful Conduct

SwingBySometime does not allow harassment, coercion, stalking, threats, intimidation, blackmail, doxxing, non-consensual behavior, revenge content, exploitation, impersonation, hate speech, or abusive conduct.

Any attempt to pressure, manipulate, shame, guilt, or intimidate another user into unwanted interaction may result in account suspension or removal.

4. Adults Only

SwingBySometime is strictly for adults 21 years of age or older. Any account involving minors, underage content, age misrepresentation, or exploitation will be removed immediately and may be reported where legally required.

5. We Do Not Verify Users

SwingBySometime does not verify identities, relationship status, health status, STI testing, criminal history, intentions, photos, age authenticity, or personal claims made by users.

Use caution, trust your instincts, communicate clearly, and make decisions that prioritize your own safety and comfort.

6. Safer Meeting Practices

If meeting someone in person, we encourage users to:

• Take things slowly and communicate openly
• Meet in public first when appropriate
• Tell someone trusted where you are going
• Use your own transportation when possible
• Respect alcohol, substances, and impaired judgment
• Honor changing comfort levels and boundaries

7. Messaging and Privacy

You control who you connect with. If someone makes you uncomfortable, disconnect, stop engaging, or report the behavior.

Never share another user’s private information, screenshots, photos, or conversations without permission.

8. Reporting Concerns

If you believe a user is violating these standards, threatening safety, engaging in abusive conduct, or acting dishonestly, please report the issue. We reserve the right to investigate, restrict, suspend, or remove accounts at our discretion.

9. Personal Responsibility

SwingBySometime is a connection platform ’ not a guarantee of trust, compatibility, honesty, safety, chemistry, consent, or conduct.

Users are solely responsible for their own decisions, communications, interactions, and offline meetings.

10. Community Philosophy

The best experiences come from honesty, kindness, confidence, communication, and respect. Be the kind of person others are glad they met.

This Safety & Consent Policy is part of our Terms of Use and Community Guidelines and may be updated from time to time.